We have all seen infants scream and kick in the middle of a supermarket, hit other children or disrespect their parents. In general, it is easy to detect, from the outside, when a child is spoiled, since their behaviors are striking and disruptive.
However, when it is our son who commits these transgressions, it is not so easy to accept. Spoiled children are not only challenging for parents and teachers; in reality, they are the most affected by these kinds of attitudes.
They end up experiencing rejection from other people and getting involved in constant conflict. In addition, they reach adulthood without having acquired many essential personal tools. Therefore, it is important to detect and correct these behaviors.
Actions that can turn your child into a spoiled child
Spoiled children are not born that way. Their behavior is the result of an inappropriate parenting style implemented at home. We show you, therefore, some of the mistakes you may have made if you think your child is spoiled.
Inappropriate limits
Children need limits to grow emotionally and psychologically healthy. Thus, guidelines as simple as “do not eat sweets before dinner” or “you have to pick up the toys after using them” help guide and provide security.
However, these limits must be clear, coherent and consistent. If you give in so that your child does not cry or to avoid a conflict, you will be taking away authority and sending confusing signals.
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